“Where” is a single finger wagging side to side — simple enough for very young toddlers. It powers every hide-and-seek and every “where did it go?” game in the house.
How to Sign “Where” in ASL
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- Point up: Extend your index finger, other fingers closed, palm facing forward.
- Wag it: Swing the fingertip side to side a few times.
- Add the face: Lowered brows and searching eyes complete the question.
Keep the wag small and quick — a big slow wave reads as “no-no” rather than “where.”
Step-by-Step Photos
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When to Use It With Your Child
- At peekaboo: “Where’s daddy?” sign, pause, reveal — the oldest teaching game there is.
- At lost-toy moments: Sign it while hunting for the lovey; the search makes it memorable.
- In books: “Where is the puppy hiding?” on every lift-the-flap page.
Tips for Success
- Hide-and-seek games generate dozens of joyful repetitions per day.
- A waved whole hand counts as a first version.
- It pairs perfectly with “gone” (flat hands flipping empty) for the full mystery arc.
Signs Related to “Where”
“What” and “who” complete the toddler question kit, and “gone / all gone” is the favorite answer. Peekaboo and where-questions are developmentally linked — both build object permanence.
“Where’s the ball?” games measurably accelerate object-permanence milestones — the sign just labels a game babies already love.